No matter a woman tells you, she does want to know how far you will go for her.
Do you blame her? Her choice are lifelong ones, not temporary ones based on one night of pleasure (men can’t always say the same thing).
She is looking for a lover who will romance her, a swain who will court her, a knight to kill her dragons, a father to her children, a spiritual mentor, a man who will go to battle for her.
She should not be wearing your armor.
You should be wearing your armor.
And your sword.
She is your kingdom.
Kingdoms are fought for, won, and kept by peace and prosperity.